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Reasons to stay a Male

  Nowadays, the trend is that people don’t want to grow up. Just like in “Peter Pan,” boys do whatever they can to stave off the burden of manhood. Video games, sports, serial dating, not taking jobs seriously–this is all evidence of a growing trend of men trying to stay boys for longer than normal. But being a man is not all that bad. It actually comes with a lot of perks. For that reason, we have compiled a list of things that boys need to understand to become men. Be humble and classy, because the world truly is neither Once you get out into the world for real, you will notice that nearly no one can accomplish anything without taking pictures and talking about it. Men do not do this. Being a man is about achieving every day, succeeding in ways that only matter to you, and really, truly enjoying those successes only for yourself. Chances are you are never going to earn a parade for your work, and no one is going to name an award after you, and that’s fine. Do you job anyway. Wome...

See why you should NEVER smoke in front of your child

  In This Section FAMILY LIFE|MARRIAGE TIPS Secondhand Smoke and Child Custody. Many parents know that smoking cigarettes damages their health. What they might not realize is that, in family court cases, the habit also can hurt their chances for custody of their kids. What's in the Child's Best Interest?    Regardless of the state you live in or whether you are fighting for full or joint custody, the judge who decides your case will be asking, "What outcome will protect the safety and well-being of your child and what is in the child's best interest?"   This involves many factors—including anything that might affect a child's health. In a rising number of custody cases, courts are also factoring in whether parents, or other family members smoke in the home or car when children are present. Smoke-Filled Risk Secondhand smoke contains about 4,000 different chemicals, many of which can cause cancer. It is proven to increase short- and long-term health risks in ch...

Why can't I have a girlfriend?

  YOU’RE old enough to date. You’d like to find someone who is attractive and who to shares your life with. In the past, though, each time you tried to start a relationship, you felt as though you crashed and burned.  What went wrong? Are girls looking only for the best-looking boys? most girls are looking for something more.  The good-looking boys don’t always have substance. What’s involved in having “substance”?  If you’d like to get to know a girl better, what factors do you need to consider? What Do you need to do first.you decide to pursue your interest in a particular girl.  there are some basic skills you need to master, and these will help you to be friends with anyone.  Consider the following.  Dress well_ girl like guys that dress and smell very nice,so good personal hygiene is very good if you want to be attracted to a girl. Conversational matter_ girls want to be heard when they speak and they love it when someone pay attention to them, so...

3 Serious mistake women make after Child birth

  Most women look forward to having their own child,so when they are pregnant they do everything possible to make sure that the baby is safe and well delivered. Sad to say most women end up doing some serious mistake especially when the baby has just been born. Here are 3 worse mistakes every pregnant woman should know. 1. Immediately after giving birth, Never take photos of the child with a bright camera light with your iPhone or Android. Doing this will make the child have either serious eye problem or the child will go blind.  2. Avoid heavy noise or heavy music close to the child ear, although it calls for celebrating when a woman give birth, reduse the sound of music played,failure to do these might make the child have hearing problem.  3. Smoking_ this is even the worse and should be avoided,never try to smoke in the presence of a new born child,Any who does that put the child life at a very high risk of death. These are the major mistake most parents do after givin...

What Happens After The Big Wedding?

MARRIAGE is beautiful union.  It can make a person’s life happier. Still, every marriage will have its problems. It might even seem as if the problems will never end, and a husband and wife may not feel as close as they once did. We should not be surprised if our marriage has difficulties from time to time. Yet, difficulties do not mean that our marriage has failed. Even couples who had very serious problems have found ways to heal their relationship and make their marriage stronger.do you still remember the day you exchange vows? The happiness and joy and feeling of achievement all Running around inside your heart.       What can sometimes happen in a marriage?  Marriage brings together two different people, each with his or her own likes and dislikes, ideas, and ways of doing things. Also, the husband and wife may come from different backgrounds or cultures. It takes time and effort for a couple to get to know and understand each other well.As time goes by, a ...

What if I'm in love with my best friend

 My best friend always call me every time to know how I'm doing, he help me always and always listen to me, we hug and kiss most times, I'm really confused_are we just friends?. _Mary ( London). Some of us might have similar experience with Mary,sometimes you don't just know if you will call it a relationship or a friendship especially when he or she hold you in highest esteem, he or she will always call and text you even make you laugh when you're angry and sometimes you think well I'm just your friend. Different people react differently especially when it comes to the way we treat them, if I'm a guy and I always feel the need of a female friend emotionally that means I'm doing what are boyfriend supposed to do especially if she's not dating. She might not even see the need of dating because you always feel that vacuum in a heart, so most times she never feel lonely emotionally, in her heart we are just friend and in your heart you just wish you could t...

Read This before becoming someone's Friend

If I’m angry, I need someone to pour my anger to. If I’m sad, I want someone to tell me it’s going to get better. If I’m happy, I want to share that with someone.if I eat something nice,I want to tell someone,I want someone dear to me to compliment me anytime. To me, friends are a necessity.”​—Joy(Australia) generally it's  been said that little children need playmates, whereas adolescents need friends.  What’s the difference? A playmate is someone who keeps you company. A friend is someone who also shares your values. We all know that a proverbs that says "true companion is loving all the time, and is a brother that is born for when there is distress.”  That’s probably describing a deeper kind of friendship than you found as a child at the playground! Fact: As you progress toward adulthood, you need friends who 1. Have admirable qualities 2. Live by praiseworthy standards 3. Have a positive influence on you 4.knows your worth 5. Correct you when need be 6. Support y...